The following true story exemplifies situational awareness and it’s importance for correct decision making in a time of crisis. Just one week ago, I was casually seated at a table with my date at a local, upscale restaurant when I felt (more than heard) a jarring, concussive blast coming from behind me. It was close. The blast was immediately followed by screams and commotion. I was pretty sure it was a gunshot but with my ears still ringing I did not even turn to look. Per my training, I just put my arm around my date’s waist and quickly pushed her past a paralyzed gaggle of people standing in front of us into the main part of the restaurant, then through the kitchen, and ultimately out the back door. During our hasty exit I heard two more shots, along with more screaming. Only when there were several layers of brick between us and the excitement did we pause. Astonishingly, no one else followed behind us! I fully expected that we would be at the head of a flood of other frightened patrons. Not so. Instead, we walked briskly past dozens of catatonic diners, who were grotesquely looking up with blank, quizzical expressions on their faces. I didn’t see even one stand up. An ashen-faced waitress finally ran out behind us. She related that a bar-patron, without a word, had precipitously produced a 38 Special snubby revolver and immediately fired a single shot at the bartender, who saved himself by diving out of the way! He then fired a second shot, again at the bartender. That shot missed also. After a brief pause, the shooter placed the pistol to his own head and simultaneously fired a third shot. He was DRT – dead right there. No one else was hurt (we learned those details the following day). Two other couples did eventually come out the back door. All remaining restaurant and bar patrons stayed in the restaurant, most still in their seats, during the entire event. When police arrived, nearly all were still there, having never even moved. -the Journal of Civil Defense When you’ve never thought about emergency exits while in a public place, when you’ve never even thought about emergencies, when you don’t have an emergency plan, it is very unlikely that you will act decisively or make correct decisions when you need to in a time of crisis. Any time you enter a restaurant, or any building – scout out eligible exits, objects that can be used for cover, and escape routes. Have a plan for getting out of there quickly, or fighting your way out from a strong position when necessary. When you go into a restaurant (or public place), learn to sum up the whole place and the different characters there in a few seconds. If sitting, choose your seat wisely. During a jarring crisis, most people will be stunned and will remain mostly clueless as to what’s really going on and what to do – like the restaurant patrons described above. Don’t be one of them.