Home Alone With An Intruder; A True Story


You never think it’s going to happen. You’re home alone. Intruders invade. You hide. You are forced to shoot to defend yourself…

Do you have the responsibility and training to properly react? Have you thought about it ahead of time? Are you trained and/or practiced to properly and safely use a firearm?

Here’s what happened…

The parents left the home to go out for dinner, and the 16-year-old teenage boy staid at home, alone.

After a time, he heard the front door squeak. It was a split-level home and was in the other room when he heard the the door open and could hear every step as someone walked in the house. He wasn’t sure if it was his parents returning so he quietly walked over and looked… and noticed there were two of them. Intruders. He saw and heard them opening drawers – they were here to steal things.

I felt a chill as it hit me – what am I going to do?

I’ve got to get out of here. I can’t let them see me. I went downstairs, walking in the dark. I found the phone and dialed 911. I could only hear one set of footsteps and I was thinking, where is the other guy?

I realized I was paying too much attention to the dispatcher and not as much attention as I should have… to them – the intruders. I gave the 911-dispatcher the information what was going on, my address… and she asked how many are there? I realized that I really didn’t know…

I walked over to the gun closet that was nearby, got the key which was hidden, opened it, and the first thing sitting there waiting for me was the shotgun.

It really clicked in my mind that I am way out here in the sticks, no-one else is nearby and the police response was going to take longer than average – maybe 10-minutes.

The shotgun was already loaded because it was meant to be a defense gun for this very reason.

I cycled a round in the chamber and informed the 911-dispatcher that I had a shotgun. She told me to not use it and to go hide in the bathtub. Instantly – I thought that was not the right thing to do for me… to corner yourself in a very confined small space where if they do come in looking for you, you’re really trapped.

I told her no, I have a really clear view and I can see a reflection off the glass window at the bottom of the stairs where if they come down the stairs I will see them. I’m in the dark, and they were in the light, so I felt I was at a strong advantage.

I could hear them milling around, going from room to room, looking around. At this point I could hear them walking towards the top of the stairs. Then it became much more serious to me… I thought, what am I going to do? They were starting to come down the stairs.

I needed two hands to operate the weapon so I told the 911-dispatcher that I’m putting the phone down. She said do not put the phone down… I put the phone down.

One of them was coming down the stairs, and when he got to the landing halfway down, I could see the light behind him casting a shadow of his reflection on the wall. I realized that he is now literally 5-steps away from access to me. I have to stop this, right now…

I yelled, “Don’t come down here, I have a gun! – I called the cops, get out of here!”

The guy froze for a few seconds…surprised. He tried to hide himself up against the wall (I could clearly see his shadow). He wasn’t leaving.

I’m now getting more nervous, more anxious… It’s a standoff. Throughout my yelling, he came down another stair or two. He’s now about three steps from entering the room. I could see the shadow outline of his head, shoulder, and chest in the reflection of the glass.

I realized that he has no intention of leaving. He is there to hurt me… That would be the only reason he would not be leaving… he had a gun. I started to realize what would have to be done, that I would have to defend myself from this guy.

He rounded the corner very rapidly – a little sprint, a little jump… I started shooting.

I shot a couple of rounds off real fast. I was kind of disoriented from all the sound, the smoke, the gunpowder…

I was looking to see where he was, and I was expecting to see him laying there. He was not lying there. I did not hit him. I was wondering where is he at this point…?

The first thing I remember hearing was this noise – it was the 911-dispatcher coming from the phone – yelling, to see if she could get my attention to find out what’s going on. I picked up the phone and said I’m fine, I shot at him, I don’t know where they are. It was reassuring when she said the sheriff should be there momentarily. It was a huge relief to know that help was almost there.

She directed me to go to the window and look, and sure enough there were lights all over the place… She told me to close the door, put the weapon down and lie flat on the floor because they were going to have to come in and search the house assuming there was an armed robber.

I could hear them come into the house and shouting ‘Sheriffs department’, and there were a-lot of them. It was a huge relief.

This was a true story. It came from a short story video segment that I had watched, and I did my best to recount the details.

Lock your door. When you’re home, at any time, you should lock your doors. You should have good, strong reinforced locks and doors. The standard doors that are built with homes today are generally not good enough.

He evaded initial confrontation by going downstairs. There he had moments to collect his thoughts and form a plan of action.

He armed himself for protection.

Then, he made contact with the police.

He made contact with the intruder when contact was imminent. He alerted the intruder that he had a firearm, giving him a chance to flee (in this case the intruder advanced).

He then responded as appropriate and as necessary. He fired the shots as the lethal threat advanced on him. He missed the intruder, even after multiple shots with a shotgun (which implies more training is needed) but the shots were psychological in that the intruder fled rather than being intent on murder (which could have turned out differently). If you have a firearm in the home, you need to practice with it so that in a defensive situation when it matters most… you will hit your target. You need to get to the range. Don’t just leave it in your closet or safe…

After the incident, and knowing police were on the way, he stayed put to safely wait for them so he could identify himself rather than going out after them or clearing the house.


  1. This is the stuff my nightmares are made of.

    I am so thankful that my wife and children love our outings at the gun range, and that they all participate. I have no doubt that any of them will make the right decision in a bad situation.

  2. Old Alaskan

    “the police never showed up”, all the while you were being told “not to shoot”…

    guess they could have taken their leisure next day to analyse it all..

    years and years ago, I was alone on the night shift at work, in a dodgy neighbourhood. stupidly I had never worried overmuch…big thick doors, and always believed if called the police would show up quickly…

    one night someone was trying to break down the door…think they were drunk and on drugs.. Called the police. Of course assured me they would be “right there”.. Time passed. The door was taking a beating. Maybe it wasn’t as long/loud as it seemed…but it seemed loud, and long. More calls to police, “ya ya, sort of thing”

    lucky a co workere showed up early, big fellow, and the door banger got scared off.

    about two hours later the police did show up…not overly concerned…had “some” reason.

    me, was plenty upset, as two hours would have been about the right time for them to pick up bodies…

  3. Only problem with me is holding a phone for that long. I would rather have BOTH of my hands on a shotgun at all times and pointed UP the stairs more towards the beginning of the decent, rather than target the bottom of decent. But that’s me. He was very lucky and yes needs more practice but at least he had access to a weapon to defend himself. If his parents had chosen not to own a firearm…Things could of been different! Never hesitate to shoot and only shoot to kill. A wounded man can still kill you so the old saying is ” Twice in the Body, Once in the Head”, triple tap.

    1. Triple tap with a shotgun? .410 with trap loads?

      My thought is that double taps, when using a pistol work.

  4. Hey, at least you can protect yourselves, in Canada you cannot use lethal force or excessive force. You cannot use a firearm in self protection no matter what is happening and if it turns into a fist to cuffs match you cannot “hurt” the person. You guessed it, what a joke. The Canadian Charter of Rights allows a criminal to retain his rights even if he chooses to break the law and if he breaks into your home and is injured he can sue you, now tell me is this an insult to law abiding citizens. Our justice system needs to be changed to reflect the ever increasing violence acts being committed.

    1. You *can* defend yourself in Canada. Be prepared for what will follow. Beats being dead or defiled.

  5. It looks like it pays to be a criminal in Canada when you are less likely to be confronted by your victim. But maybe it’s mostly too cold to pursue criminal activity up there (smile).

  6. have to agree, very tough in Canada to defend yourself.

    heard some bizarre stuff on the radio.

    having said that, there is the old saying

    “Better to be judged by six than carried by six”

    any suggestions out there which can be safely (legally ) used in Canada?

    last yr a person defended themselves against an intruder (in Canada) with pepper spray, and got criminally charged

    couple yrs ago, a restaurant owner had a bowl full of hot spices he was using to cook with, threw it in intruder’s face, he is still coping with criminal charges (the restaurant owner)

    it is crazy here

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